Sunday, May 11, 2014

Happy Mother's Day!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY! 5.11.14
Perhaps the best gift of all this morning was having three cooperative little kids ready to pose in a picture with me before church. I'm so lucky to be a mommy to these three blessings!
I woke up to a beautiful, super delicious breakfast compliments of my man Jon. Who wouldn't feel spoiled with a table full of gourmet pastries, a dozen red roses, and homemade cards?!?
Miss Lucy went to town creating me all kinds of wonderful Mother's Day gifts and cards. This is a portrait of Yours Truly. She told me, "Your hair is a dirty blonde, so I added some brown streaks to make it realistic." Thanks for keeping it real, Luce!
I never thought much about filling out these little sheets for my mom when I was a kid, but now that I'm a mom, I LOVE them! They are so much fun to read. Lucy's says: "My mom is as pretty as a rose that is red and lovely. She is as sweet as the sweetest hummingbird. She is as smart as the smartest person on Earth. But most of all she is as special as a new born baby!" Awww, melts me! 
"As you can see, my mom is special because she is perfect." I shall be keeping this for later on down the road to teenage-dom...
Zach made me a really cute candle holder at preschool and this nice card. I've felt happy and appreciated all day long, and what a gift that is! I am SO incredibly thankful for the mothers, grandmas, aunts, friends, and women in my life, that have shown me how to love unconditionally. Motherhood is the most trying, exhausting, frustrating, exasperating, beautiful, wonderful, emotional, amazing journey I've ever taken. How grateful I am for Lucy, Zach, and Leah who made me a "mom," and to my Heavenly Father who gave them to me on "loan!" 

A Grandma Joanie Visit!

My mom, aka "Grandma Joanie," flew out last Thursday evening to spend the week with us here in North Carolina. As her opportunities to be the amazing-travelling-granny are quickly dwindling (now that Devin and Sarah have officially moved to Boise), we figured she's only got one or two times before we all kiss the East Coast good bye!  
We kicked the weekend off right by attending my Body Pump class Friday afternoon, and then undoing all that hard work by eating pizza at the brand new Brixx. My mom tried the Spicy Thai pizza, while I got the BLT. Yum!
I talked Jon into letting me fly solo on our dinner date, so while he watched the kiddos at home, I got to relax with my mom and catch up on almost 6 months worth of news!
There also happened to be a pay off for Jon's sacrifice: My mom graciously agreed to give us the next day off so we could head to Myrtle Beach while she babysat the grandkids. It was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. A much needed "day-off," spent shopping at the outlet malls unhurried and unhassled, a tasty, QUIET picnic lunch basking on the warm sandy beach, and oodles of time to reconnect with my one-and-only was literally just what the doctor ordered! 
We even had time to squeeze in a round of mini-golf before we headed over to Carrabba's for a relaxing dinner out. And may I just add, I WON. Jonathan will make excuse after excuse (i.e. "I wasn't trying that hard," "I wanted to let you win"), but I won fair and square. We finished up dinner and then enjoyed the pretty drive home through South Carolina. It was pretty much one of the best days ever. 
Meanwhile back at home, Grandma spent the day entertaining the kids with Happy Meals at the sand park, Sonic slushies on the way home, taking Lucy to her tennis lesson, and watching movies at home. The best part? Apparently Leah (our resident screamy-head) was as good as gold. Phew!
Sunday we attended church with Grandma, which is always fun, especially considering there are a few total redneck wackos who attend church with us-- like the guy who drove to church in an antique firetruck and then laid on the horn for a good 30 seconds once church was out and blew everyone's eardrums to smithereens! All part of the North Carolina experience...
After a delicious fish dinner and Belgian waffles for dessert (thanks to Grandma's handiwork), we went on a nice sunset walk and enjoyed the 80 degree weather. So beautiful! Spring was in full swing and the kids scooted the whole mile loop around the neighborhood.
Monday night Zachary had his first baseball game. It was coach-pitch this time, so I was a little nervous since he's only played t-ball up until this point, but he did great. He got some good swings in and had a blast running around the outfield trying to catch the ball.
He is on the "Rangers" and since their practices were both canceled because of thunder storms the week before, it's been baptism by fire starting right into the games. He loved having a whole cheering section devoted to him with all five of us there to watch! 
Tuesday we decided it isn't every day that grandmas come to visit, so we played hooky from school and headed out on day trip to the beach. We'd never taken my mom to MB, so that was definitely at the top of the list, and the weather was FANTASTIC. 
We started with a quick stop at the outlet malls, then picked up a quick lunch at Five Guys for burgers and fries. We finally made it to the beach by about 1:30 p.m. and the kids were ready to soak up the wind and waves! Leah LOVED it!
Zach and Lucy are already big water bugs, and this time Leah joined them. I couldn't keep any of them out of the water!


We spent the whole afternoon playing in the water, building sand castles, and basically just soaking up the sun. It was soooo nice to have a day away from school!
Wednesday we were right back to the routine, so as soon as we picked Zach up from preschool we headed to Panera for lunch. This is Zach demolishing his vanilla cupcake. Yum!
Leah helped herself to some frosting too! Don't you just love that little grin? 
We then loaded up the kids and headed out on a treasure hunt for antiques-- or "old stuff" as Zach dubbed it. The South is a mecca for "vintage" furniture and accessories so we took advantage of all the thrift stores and antique shops nearby and found some pretty cool treasures.
My mom found this cute chandelier, and I bought this old door (project still to be determined), and Jon officially thinks I'm CRAZY for paying for something like an old beat up door, but I loved it, so maybe I am!
I also found this adorable little bench for the kids for some sweet photo opps! I think I'll paint it and put it in the girls' room.
Thursday morning we took a quick walk around Southern Pines Reservoir, and then I got some early Mother's Day pampering when I got to get my haircut while my mom watched Leah. I chopped a few inches off and brightened it up a bit, and now I'm ready for summer. It was perfect timing with Zach getting out of preschool, me finishing my cut, and lunch at Chick fil A.
I was so inspired by my new 'do, that I decided to finally get Zach's locks chopped, so we headed over to Great Clips (BIG mistake), so I could pay $12 for some lady to give my sweet innocent little lamb a hack job. I told her to leave about 2 inches on top, but she buzzed him with the clippers and the rest is history. He was pretty much MAD at me and cracked us up when he said he looked like a "dog." The lesson learned? Next time I'm just doing it myself! At least he's nice and cool for summer and he still looks handsome to me!
Thursday evening Lucy had her end-of-year music program at school. It was a "Barnyard Musical" and Lucy's class were the cows. She looked so cute in her cow costume!
They had an adorable concert and those kiddos new every single word and action for each song! The best part is the whole thing only lasted about 30 minutes and thankfully Leah was totally entertained. She clapped enthusiastically after every number. We loved it!
The whole fam after the concert. 
It was so special for Lucy to have Grandma there for a school event! I decided that after three years of being back on the East Coast we are officially starved for family. The first day my mom was here, my kids just followed her around like little lost ducklings and soaked up all of her hugs and kisses. Leah ate up the extra attention, Zach asked for a cuddle every afternoon, and Lucy had one more set of listening ears to tell every detail of Harry Potter to. We loved getting some good quality grandma time in and are so thankful she took the time to come and visit! 

Sunday, April 27, 2014

April Showers!

The absolute best months in the South are April and May. Beautiful weather, lots of sunshine, blossoms and flowers everywhere, the humidity is still low, and the bugs aren't out yet! I've come to look forward to spring as my favorite season here, and so far we've had some glorious weather to fully appreciate what a particularly nice spring it's been.
My little crew joins me at the gym a lot so I can teach my class. I thought I'd snap a quick picture of us before we went in. I will really miss Zach and his silly sense of humor during the day next year, but I think Leah will miss him even more!
Lucy's spring break was late this year-- normally it's sometime in March, but this year it was the second week in April. We didn't mind because the weather wasn't very nice in March, and this gave us a good chance to be outside and do some fun things we normally don't have time for-- like meet friends for lunch at Chick fil A. We played at Sonic, went to the park several times, drove to the museum in Rockingham, and played outside with Josh and Luke. It was a nice preview of what summer will be like.
 I also got to take Lucy and Zach to a movie on Friday night. We went to Rio 2, while Jon took Leah on a little daddy-daughter date to Purple Penguin and the Dollar store. It was nice to be able to sit back and relax with the older kids, and be treated to a movie in the theater while Jon put Leah to bed!
 After debating whether or not she'd like to grow out her hair some more, Lucy finally decided to get it trimmed on the last day of spring break. Then a week later both of her front teeth fell out--one day apart from each other! I catch her looking in the mirror sometimes and she says, "I just can't believe how different I look!" I love the little jack o' lantern grin! 
 Leah is still up to her usual antics-- being extra naughty, and a drama queen about everything! Sometimes I wonder if Heavenly Father knows that if he makes them extra cute, they can be extra naughty and get away with it.
 We had the missionaries over for Sunday dinner and somehow she weaseled a cupcake out of me before we'd even eaten dinner. Sigh. I've lost my ability to do battle and I give in too easily!
 She is SUPER smart-- she can count to three, basically dress herself and put her shoes on, pick up her toys, bring me a diaper and wipes when she's poopy, and knows our schedule and routine by heart. She absolutely loves the movie "Frozen," and we probably watch it at least twice a day. She of course doesn't really talk yet, but she's heard the songs and script enough that she can repeat certain words and sounds right in sync with the movie, like the song "Let It Go." It's crazy! 
Her absolute favorite thing to do though is be outside and SWING! She loves the swings at the park and is very peaceful while the older two run and play as long as I stand there and push.
I'd been without a calling in our ward for the last several months, and just got newly called to the Enrichment committee in Relief Society. The first activity we planned happened to be a gardening one, which I really know next to nothing about. Somehow all of our gardening experts fell through, so I ended up teaching everyone how to plant herb gardens, thanks to some info on Pinterest. It should be fun to watch them grow this summer-- along with two tomato plants we're crossing our fingers with. I just hope the bunnies don't get to them first!
I mentioned how lovely everything is in the spring-- and I finally figured out what the beautiful purple flower is called that grows on all the trees and in the kudzu around here: WISTERIA. Finally. It was a mystery for the longest time, but it is really beautiful.
And true to my word, I let Jon have the weekend after his birthday off so he could go backpacking with his Air Force buddy Dr. Boh. They went to Grayson Highlands State Park in Virginia, and had a great time. Luckily Dr. Boh took some pictures so I could get a peek of what they were up to, while I was holding down the fort by myself with three wild Indians. The scenery looks beautiful!

Apparently there are wild ponies all over the park, and you're able to get quite close because they're not very shy.

The one and only Dr. Boh! They nicknamed him "Brother" because the girls at the clinic think he and Jon look so much alike. I guess it's the bald head.



I'm really glad he got to go have a manly "timeout" to recharge the ol' batteries. I think that's probably one of the things I miss the most about living so far away from family--just having helpers with the kids every now and then! I have a really hard time asking for help anyway, and then add that to the fact that we just don't have much of a network of friends and neighbors, so the brunt of all childcare falls squarely on our shoulders 24/7. I have to take my kids everywhere-- my doctor appointments, grocery shopping, visiting teaching, etc. I keep reminding myself how we'll probably look back at these four years as a time in our lives when it was JUST US and nobody else, and we'll miss that simplicity, but it is easy to get burned out! We're sure counting down the days of this final year.... Only one April left!   

Favorites

I challenged myself last year on the blog to record all of my kids' current "favorites," and it's been a year since the last one-- so here's the new round of what's popular in the Cardon household for 2014! 
Lucy Debora, age 7

TV Show: Scooby Doo, My Little Ponies
Movie: Harry Potter 1 and 2
Song: Taylor Swift
Food: Pepperoni Pizza, Steak
Least Favorite Food: Meatloaf, Sloppy Joes
Treat: Smarties, Cupcakes, Popcorn
Color: Purple
Toy: Harry Potter wand
Activity: Play with Josh and Luke (neighbors)
Animals: Swans, Flamingos
Store: Claire's
To Do With Mom: Go Out to Dinner 
To Do With Dad: Daddy Daughter Dates
Best Friends: Luke and Josh

Zachary Jonathan, age 5

TV Show: Batman, Avengers, Justice League, Ninjago
Movie: Despicable Me 2, Spiderman
Song: Techno (Body Pump songs)
Food: Hamburgers, Steak, Pancakes
Least Favorite Food: Anything with Tomato Sauce
Treat: Cookies, Candy, Cake, Ice Cream
Color: Orange
Toy: Legos
Activity: Play with Josh and Luke (neighbors)
Animals: Shark
Store: Toy Store
To Do With Mom: Help Make Treats
To Do With Dad: Play Outside
Best Friends: Luke and Josh, Carson, Hudson

Leah Gene, age 1

TV Show: Sesame Street, Curious George
Movie: Frozen
Song: 5 Little Monkeys, Let It Go
Food: Cheese, Yogurt
Least Favorite Food: Veggies, Meat
Treat: Smarties, Suckers, Ice Cream
Color: Pink
Toy: Baby Dolls
Activity: Play with Lucy and Zach
Animals: Dogs and Cats
Store: Wal-Mart
To Do With Mom: Be Pushed in the Swing
To Do With Dad: Wrestle
Best Friends: Lucy and Zach