Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Two Birthdays in Two Days!

Happy Birthday to Zach-O!
Who could forget this sweet little guy? Since day one those big blue eyes have killed me. Our funny little preschooler officially turned FIVE on Sunday, April 6th. Right after I delivered Zach I had to be stitched up from some pretty bad tearing from the final push, and since the epidural was wearing off the doctor wouldn't let me hold him until she finished because I suppose she was worried I might drop him (or worse, pass out) if the pain got too bad. I was so disappointed I wouldn't get those first few minutes right after birth to finally just look at him before the nurses whisked him off to do their tests. After all that work my arms were just itching to hold him! One of the nurses had bundled him up really quickly and must have seen my face, because she came over and put him right next to my face so I could see him. He had been screaming, but as soon as I said, "Hi Zach!" he immediately stopped and turned up his little face with those big blue eyes and just looked at me. It was almost as if someone had pushed a button and turned him off; he just froze and we looked at each other for a few seconds, and all the nurses just kind of froze too-- and were like, "Wow! He really recognized your voice!" Then he started wailing again and he was off to get his vitals checked. But that's how I met my little Zach for the first time. 
 We decided to have Zach's first ever friend birthday party on Thursday right after preschool. I thought it was a pretty genius idea, since Saturday was General Conference, and most people are busy on Saturdays anyway. We had five little boys come, all from his class, and Zach was absolutely thrilled to be the center of attention as the big birthday boy!
 There's a great park right across from his school called Camelot (it's a wooden castle), so we met all the moms and boys for a birthday playdate. We brought pizza, fruit, juice boxes, and "Lego" brownies for lunch. Best of all, Jon was able to get work off so he could come and help me, and see Zach at his first party.
 The best part of any birthday party is getting to open presents, and for Zach it was no different. He couldn't wait to tear into them! He got some really fun gifts, and all the boys bounced back and forth from pizza and brownies, to playing in the castle, to playing with the new presents!
 Poor Lucy was in school, but Leah got to come, and this is her working on probably her third brownie. She'd climb up, nab one, then walk around and drop it in the pine needles and go get another one. Good thing the frosting coordinated with her outfit!
 He had the absolute best time with his friends-- Hudson, Carson, Padraig, Ezra, and Jeremy. When the party was over and we were driving home he said, "That party was totally wicked!" It's good to be five!
 It only got better too! On his real birthday, he woke up to a table full of presents and cards, all from mom and dad and his grandmas and grandpas.
 All he wanted were Lego sets, so Lego sets were what he got. He got a Batman set, two Star Wars sets, plus a new Razor scooter so he could keep up with the neighborhood scoot crew. Not a bad haul! Poor Jon will be putting together/fixing legos for decades to come.
 I made a yummy birthday breakfast for both birthday boys of red velvet pancakes with cream cheese icing, scrambled eggs, and bacon. Yum!
Blowing out all FIVE candles on his super cool Batman cake! Oh yeah! I don't know what we'd do without our sweet little boy to help even things out in this girl-dominant household. He makes us all laugh so many times throughout the day, he is so thoughtful, kind, and protective of his sisters, and he is just a peaceful, mellow kind of guy to have around. Our family would not be complete without him. We love everything about him-- from his superman undies, to his crazy bed head, to his little giggle. Happy Birthday Zach! 
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 Happy Birthday Jonathan! Five years ago the nurse told me to hold out for another 4 hours and Zach could have shared a birthday with his daddy-- but she obviously wasn't feeling what I was feeling at the time!
 Our beloved Dad celebrated his 32nd birthday the following day. I've just decided birthdays kinda stink when you get older, because just like any other day, he had to wake up early, drive in to work, work all day, and then teach PT before coming home. Once he finally arrived we were excited to have him home to wish him a Happy Birthday! He opened his cards and "presents" (not really presents, since he got his new car), so the only thing I could truly "give" him was permission to go backpacking this weekend-- no strings attached! 
 Luckily we were able to find a babysitter so we could share a special birthday dinner date at Bonefish Grill that night. That was a gift for me too! We dined on his favorites-- coconut shrimp, tillapia, and au gratin potatoes. Yum! 
 Back at home we whipped out his all-time favorite birthday no-bake cheesecake and sang him a rousing rendition of "Happy Birthday" (which you can see he is really getting into!). Not sure what he made a wish for, but it probably has something to do with: "Finding a successful practice to buy this time next year and then making millions of dollars! Cha-Ching!$$" We love him SO much. As flighty and brainless as I was throughout most of my college days thinking back on the boys I dated, I'm not sure how I managed to luck into the greatest husband, dad, and best friend ever-- and not sure I deserve him. It was certainly an act of divine intervention, as Heavenly Father knew I needed HIM to make me be a better wife, mother, and person. Happy Birthday Jonathan!   

Jon Visits Hotlanta (And leaves the rest of us poor sops at home!)

Jon recently attended the Hinman Dental Conference in Atlanta at the end of March. The conference is from Thursday to Saturday, so he left early Wednesday afternoon and got home late Saturday night. Before he left me to my doom, er, I mean, to the world of single parenting, I made him take me out to lunch at the brand-new Buffalo Wild Wings in town. 
 Out of necessity we took Zach and Leah as our rowdy lunch dates, but since it's a pretty low-key, casual place they didn't stick out too much and the food was alright. At least they provided complimentary iPads for the kids to play with, which entertained this little rascal for a few seconds.
 Id' never been to one before (Jon had been once in Fayetteville), but I would describe it as bar food, which may come as little surprise to you since it IS basically a bar. I don't care as long as it's one more restaurant to add to our ever growing rotation of dinner date places! I get sick of the same 5 restaurants all the time. Jon got the fish tacos and I had a buffalo chicken wrap and an extra large diet Pepsi. I knew I'd need it!  
 To the person who left in the comment section: "Does Leah always smile?" (Ahem! Cough! Dad!) Weeellll, funny you should ask. NO, Leah does not always smile. In fact, when she's not smiling she is screaming, crying, throwing a tantrum, or doing all three at the same time. She is absolutely convinced she is the Queen Bee (just ask the kids at the gym! Apparently she bosses them around and steals "her" favorite toys from anyone daring to play with them), and when she doesn't get her way she is quick to assert that it is HER way or the highway. So! Ha! Ha! Does Leah always smile?!? Surely you jest...  
Just picture this face for four days straight with no relief pitcher waiting in the bull pen to come relieve you at night... The kids and I made the most of our time away from Jon by visiting the playplace at Chick fil A, spending a few afternoons at the park, shopping at Aldi, frequenting the Kids Center at the gym, and spring cleaning the house! My floors never looked so good! Lucy came down with a bad cough on Friday, so she stayed home from school which was actually a big help. In fact, I bribed the kids that if they'd help me take care of the house and Leah, and be super good while Daddy was away, I'd buy them a new pet fish to replace our beloved deceased Blueberry Sparkle.  
And they did it! Saturday evening we ventured to Pet Smart and picked out this new little guy, dubbed "Rainbow Dash." Zach was convinced he ought to be named "Goldie," which makes no sense, but I love him all the more for it!
They are desperate for a pet, but since most of the pet care falls squarely on my shoulders, I'm not ready for a dog, a cat, or a hamster. Right now we like our little fish very much-- he likes to stare at me while I cook dinner which is kind of funny. He fits in already!
Meanwhile Jon was sleeping uninterrupted, enjoying the benefits of a maid to pick up after him, attending intellectually stimulating lectures, avoiding all poopy diapers, and eating out at awesome restaurants, all on the Air Force's dime! A well deserved break for him! Here's some yummy Indian food he sent me a picture of.  

He also got to eat at "The Spence," which was my one requirement for him while in Atlanta. It's the brainchild of Top Chef winner Richard Blais, and has some great reviews online. When we were in Atlanta last year we tried out his burger joint "Flip" which was excellent, so Jon had to go back and try this place which is fancier and more gastronomy based. I think he thought the food was good-- not mind-blowingly good though, and overpriced. Oh well. Next year I've convinced him the kids and I get to go with him! 

Sunday, March 23, 2014

MARCHing On...

March is certainly "March"-ing on... And so is TIME! We had Stake Conference last Sunday, and on the drive home from Fayetteville it suddenly dawned on me-- we only have TWO more Stake Conferences left before we move. Soon it will only be two more General Conferences, and give it another month or so and we will only have 12 fast Sundays left here in North Carolina!! And I have to admit, it felt SO good to realize that! To realize we can do this! We can finally finish our four year payback and then move on...be closer to friends and family and "home"...not be so burned out and far away. We've spent almost our entire marriage living on the East Coast, so needless to say, it was a big moment on the power of perspective, and super encouraging for me to think that we've finally reached that light at the end of the tunnel. Almost there!
Meanwhile life marches on as well. This little peanut keeps growing and growing. She is such a firecracker-- people can tell within mere minutes of being around her. We bought some new flip flops to celebrate the warm weather and she wears them everywhere! She also likes to pick her own clothes now, and this is hands-down her favorite dress because of the kitties.
Someone got a hold of my phone the other day and took a "selfie." Leah Selfie! 
Leah absolutely loves mac and cheese. She finds the boxes upstairs in our storage room, brings them to the top of the staircase, and drops them down on me. Yesterday we fed her lunch, and as soon as she was done she walked over to the kitchen drawer that holds the napkins and towels, pulled one out and wiped her hands and face, stuffed it back in the drawer, and walked off.
As the US Open fast approaches, several new businesses have opened up in town hoping to get their piece of the pie in June. A "Buffalo Wild Wings" just opened, and a guy in our ward opened up "Brixx," which is a franchised pizzeria featuring wood-fired pizzas, paninis, and salads. Jon and I decided it was time for a date night! Luckily our neighbor Addie was up for the challenge, and we pay pretty good.:) We got to take Jon's hot new sports car.
We each got our own personal pizzas-- Jon got the Greek with olives and basil, and I got the Chicken Florentine with spinach, feta, and bacon. They were amazing! We will definitely be eating there lots in the year to come!
Last Saturday Pinehurst hosted its annual St. Patrick's Day parade in the Village. The weather was great, there weren't too many people, and my kids were super excited to get candy! I didn't know how interested Leah would be, but she had a blast. She loved the noise, the marching bands, the different cars, and all the doggies. She sat the entire time and clapped for everyone.
Everyone in their green shirts, except for Daddy. Guess he missed the memo!
Lucy finished "Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone" this past Friday and was super proud. She is an awesome little book worm and has fallen in love with HP. I told her that Grandma Cardon needed to throw her one of her famous HP parties to celebrate! Somehow Leah was inducted into Harry's fan club too, as she came downstairs with a lightning scar on her forehead yesterday, handiwork of Zach.
 Yesterday the weather was fantastic so we decided to get out of the house by heading to the NC Zoo and using our new pass. We'd tried to go a few weekends ago, and when we got there we discovered it was closed due to some storm damage from the night before. After driving 45 minutes just to get there, we were pretty disappointed even though they offered us 5 free passes to use anytime, but it was little consolation since we'd already splurged on an annual pass! 
 Leah LOVED seeing the animals and had so much fun playing at all the different interactive exhibits!
 We decided to tackle only half the Zoo since it's divided into two big parts-- Africa and North America (our half). That way we didn't stress out about our sloooow pace, and we still got to see alligators, birds, snakes, turtles, bears, and buffalo.
I have a thing for buffalo. Aren't they cute? We booked it back to the car and headed back to town to grab some burritos for dinner, and ended the weekend with a movie.
 All dressed up for church this morning!
 Sisters who are definitely pretty in pink!
 Now we're all pretty in pink! Great minds think alike...either that, or I picked out all the outfits this morning and had pink on the brain!
 Can't leave out my handsome (and strong) mens! Jon's done it again. The base had a Sport's Day on Friday where they all competed in an Army Air Assault obstacle course that's used in training, and Jon competed for his team (again, out of the ENTIRE Air Force Base) and WON. Again. 
Here it is. Proof of the big win. Third time he's competed in an event and won. They announced it over the loud speaker and gave him this medal, so he was pretty proud.
Leah has learned Zach's trick of pushing the stepstool over and getting into the treats. Here she found the cookie batter and helped herself. It's a guilty little grin! 

And since the theme of the post has been the passage of time, here's a little comparison pic of a Sunday almost exactly one year ago:
March 2013
March 2014

They really do grow up fast!

Friday, March 21, 2014

In Like a Lion, Out Like a Lamb!

The first day of spring has finally arrived!! We've had a rough March weather-wise; snow, sleet, rain, wind, and lots more rain. Every now and then we'd get a nice day that warmed up above 50 degrees, but then the very next day it was back to cold and wet. Rita's does free water ice every March 20th, so we were more than happy to get in line for our free treat!
 March definitely came in like a lion, but yesterday it was finally sunny (although still a little damp from all the rain), so despite the threat of a very soggy bum from wet playground equipment, we played at the park with some friends before hitting Rita's. Leah got her very own cup and decided it would be much easier to just shovel it in with her hands instead of trying to use the spoon.
Zach's always game for anything that involves sugar!
 I knew Lucy would be totally jealous that I'd taken Zach and Leah for a Rita's, so after dinner we had to go clean the church (our turn on the rotation), so we promised Luce we'd stop by Rita's afterwards. 
Jon and Lucy headed in to get their free treat while I waited outside with Zach and Leah, but poor Zach was so sad about having to share one, we let him double-dip. Shhhh! Don't tell! HAPPY SPRING! 

Sunday, March 9, 2014

If A Picture Speaks A Thousand Words...

...Then I won't have to write very much explaining these amazing photos! This past summer, long long ago, while we were visiting Boise, my sister in law Sarah took some family pictures for us. Literally, we spent about 20 minutes corralling kids and trying to force them to cooperate, which was no easy task-- but the results she managed to capture despite it all turned out fantastic. I'm not sure why I forgot to post this, but better late than never! 


 Isn't she just the most gorgeous 6 year old ever?!?


 Ahhhhh, those beautiful blue eyes kill me every time...

 Such a cute little stinker!

I love these little people!